Lollers of the day

Marriage, kids vs. in a relationship and career

We talk about awkward teen years, the hormones running rampant, breasts appearing voices breaking and generally, being outta sorts.

Well guess what, 10 years after my first period, I’m in the same situation all over again. Except the playing field has completely changed. It’s worse than going training bra shopping. This is Woman World, and it will always be the same. Damn scary.

So what am I on about?

I've had it!

I've had it!

Marriage, kids vs. ‘in a relationship and career’

It has just gotten worse, now days we don’t shun single woman who have careers, we pick on woman in successful relationships with careers who don’t want kids or want to get married.

It’s as though, my boyfriend is going to waste by being with me, because I don’t want children or want to get married…EVER.

A friend of mine actually messaged my boyfriend, and asked him why he hasn’t asked me to marry him yet, or why I haven’t brought up the marriage question yet. That she thinss it’s time we got married because its not right that we have been together for so long (7 years). We haven’t had kids yet and have no intention of getting married!

Honestly, why get married if everything is fine the way it is. Why have kids in a world where you can’t trust anyone. I don’t even think I am maternal, not to mention I just can’t afford to have kids. The worst part, is that she would be in my business trying to set me up with people if I were single. Because I am not single, and in a relationship something must be wrong with me?

So you are damned if you are single and damned if you are in a relationship but don’t want to get married? What do I do now?

Has this ever happened to you?

Love the game not the players

I’m a HUGE soccer fan, not so much with local clubs, because of the politics and the fact that I wasn’t really exposed to it growing up which is actually pretty sad. Though I know of the various teams and check up on the PSL logs every now and then, its not really my scene. I want to actually go to a game soon! So if you’re keen lets do it :)

Anyway like I was saying I love soccer. I watch Arsenal (I dunno why the English Clubs, it’s just what my parents watched) matches religiously and HATE when people confuse soccer with ‘celebrity’ its ridiculous what about the love of the sport? I appreciate the sport and cant be assed about David Beckham’s latest do, or who is dating who because honestly does it matter? If it makes someone play better than great, but if not, what’s the point? Lets leave that dramz stuff to Footballers Wives shall we?

Lets take a minute and focus on the GAME and not the look, because for the love of the Neville’s, it often ends badly very badly:

Tomorrow is D-Day

Right, remember my rambling about a review type effort. Well its happening tomorrow, and I’m still not sure how its gonna go down. Guess I will wait and see… I know that I lack confidence in my writing. Thats only because I don’t know my boundaries just yet. Will figure it out soon though.

Looking into my life

Looking into my life

LOLLERS of the day

This is cavity sweet!

Was browsing the net, came across this site .

Ja, I know its a very girly thing to do, going fluid at pictures of cuteness. But, I think that in my old age. I’m getting soft, sad but true…that being said, I can’t watch The Notebook, or overt soppyness without feeling very uncomfortable.

I think it’s my loveĀ  of animals because I’ve never looked at toddlers and gone all gooey. But maybe I can’t appreciate them just yet….

and....melt

and....melt

MX-you gotta c it to believe it

The best part of the world we live in has to be MXC. A friend downloaded a few seasons for me and now I can’t get enough. This is well…insane

Basically MXC is the dubbed version of Takeshi’s Castle a Japanese game show. I’m not sure if I love that its dubbed so badly (which is awesome!) ala Kung Pow or because I can’t BELIEVE people put themselves through it. If you want to do some background research on the ‘characters’ Click Here

If you just want the fun check out the vids. Will post more MXC’s soonish, but you can check it out on Youtube.


Oh em gee (omg)

So I have been at my new job for a month now. I have my one month review, which is basically a catch-up if you will. You know:

  • howzit going,
  • how you doing,
  • where’d you see yourself going

Only problem….

I’m fricking nervous, you know what. I’m not sure how I’m doing, I haven’t missed a deadline. But my gawd…what are they thinking? Am I doing a good job do I take too many smoke breaks? I need to get into their minds!

One of the Project Managers, reckons that no news is good news. I disagree, I think if I was doing a brilliant job, some one would have said something no?

I think I’m gonna go home now and just relax or else I WILL drive myself loco. Besides I have two more days till the big day.

Guess will let you know on Thursday.

This is how I feel!

This is how I feel!

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